Since moving into Brussels at the beginning of the year, last week I was honored to have a long conversation with Frank Schwalba-Hoth (former Green MEP and long-term doyen of the Brussels scene, “German by birth, European by conviction, global by heart”).
The week before, I had participated in one of Frank’s soirée internationales, enjoying a East African meal with about 30 diverse participants with a presentation by writer and poet Silvia Polidori (I was there thanks to her, having met 24 hours before at a social evening at LibreBook at the end of the road where I live).
A consummate networker, during the soirée host Frank introduced each person with concision, warmth and respect. I offered to talk at a future soirée about loss which he accepted for 20 May, and he suggested having a longer introductory conversation beforehand.
8 May 2026
“Let me give you an intelligence test”, he playfully posed several times in the London Café by the European Parliament when we met. I failed, the majority of times, but was regaled with fascinating facts and insights ranging from the only territory to have had Esperanto as its national language, the history of the second-oldest railway station in the world (repurposed in front of the Parliament), to how he had instigated a recurrent Thursday evening party in the adjacent place du Luxembourg ten years prior. I learnt much more – particularly given his vast geographic and linguistic knowledge and desire for precision that gently exposed the limits of my English(ness).
I found we shared many things, including a studied passion for cycling as well as having been married to a Brazilian, but he appears to rapidly find common points of humanity with anyone. He mentioned how he sought always to connect with dignity with people of any political persuasion, living actively a commitment to equality and equity – which resonates for me as a Quaker.
Attesting to the depth and breadth of Brussels, I was able to share with him a couple of discoveries I had made in the city that he hadn’t been aware of, such as the book The Owned Continent by journalist Dave Keating (who I had met earlier that week) and the English satirical theatre group The Schuman Show (I had enjoyed their performance the day before).
Before I knew it, three hours had gone by with Frank. He had asked detailed questions about my life and towards the end asked if I would be happy for my profile to appear in a book he was writing on people in the Brussels Bubble.
I am still arriving, but I am loving Brussels for its cosmopolitan nature, surprises and grittiness, and even – betraying my British roots and proclivities – its cooler, greyer and damper climate. Thank you Frank, and also to all the other people who have been welcoming and inspiring me in this vibrant, historic and propitious city.